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Part 4 of 4: Japanese laws ‘erase’ American father

Dec. 12, 2006
By Kirsten Brown
Scripps Howard Foundation Wire

WASHINGTON – One of the last times Brett Weed saw his 6-year-old son, Takoda, the pair was driving in Weed's black Ford pick-up, the one that his son liked to call, "Daddy's big truck."

That was also the day Takoda cheerfully announced, "I have a Japanese daddy."

Takoda's babyish words threw Weed, 42, but it confirmed what he had long suspected: his ex-wife, Kyoko Oda, was slowly replacing him not only as a spouse but also as a father.

Oda, 38, completed her replacement of Weed on Jan. 15, 2004, when she moved to Japan with Takoda and their 2-year-old daughter, Tiana, severing all contact.

Oda moved to Japan with the consent of a U.S. court but was ordered to allow frequent visitation between Weed and his children as well as communication through Web cams and phone calls. None of these agreements was ever followed, Weed said.

As a result, a court in Portland , Ore., granted Weed full custody. Even so, he has been unable to make contact with them since that day in the truck.

Compounding the problem, Japan's Ministry of Justice officials made little effort to serve Oda with the court documents, said Bradley Lechman-Su, Weed's attorney.

"They have more or less boxed out any attempts to serve court documents, if the person doesn't want to be served," Lechman-Su said. "Any Japanese official is not going to go out of their way to serve court documents on a Japanese national when those court documents are from another country."
Takoda turned 9 in November. Weed wanted to send his son a present, but he has no idea where he is.

"When they left, he was just starting to get to the age where he would show interest in hobbies," Weed said, "the kinds of things that I wanted to share with him and support. We could have worked in the shop together. But by the time I ever see him again, he will be past all that."

Weed grasps at these thin memories he retains of his children, who never age in his mind. He remembers how Tiana's petite face would blossom into a big grin when he came into view.

Now Weed fears that Oda may be telling Tiana and her brother that he is dead or, worse, that he doesn't love them.

Abducting parents often make such excuses for the absent parent, said Geoffrey Greif, University of Maryland professor of social work.
"They will say something like, ‘If Daddy loved you, he would call you,' or, ‘Your father was not treating you well. Only I know how to treat you,'" said the co-author of "When Parents Kidnap."

Greif said that Weed's apprehension for his children's future emotional health is not unfounded.

"There is a range of stories that leave the abducted child unable to trust the parent and unable to trust the environment in general," Greif said. "When they become adults, they are unable to feel comfortable falling in love with people and trust them."

Until or unless Japan revamps its judicial system to better enforce its feeble civil laws, Lechman-Su said, it's up to U.S. courts to familiarize themselves with the consequences of sanctioning a divorced Japanese national's move to Japan.

"If they allow a Japanese national to return to Japan with children ... it just completely leaves it in their hands," he said.

In the end, Tiana and Takoda are cut off from not only half of their family but also half their background, Weed said.

"These kids are 50 percent Japanese, 50 percent American," Weed said. "Half their culture is being wiped out. It's basically being erased."


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'It's a heartless country that would separate loved ones'

Special to The Japan Times
July 18, 2006

President George W. Bush made this headline comment in April to Japanese mother Sakie Yokota, whose daughter Megumi was abducted at age 13 by North Korean agents.

U.S. President George W. Bush meets with Sakie Yokota, mother of abductee Megumi, in April. While the North Korea abductee issue garners huge headline space here, the abductions of children of international marriages by Japanese themselves receive scant attention. AP PHOTO

But not so widely reported in the Japanese media are the cases of those non-Japanese parents whose children have also been internationally abducted, by Japanese citizens themselves.

Outside Japan, calls for reform are growing. During a June summit with Prime Minister Koizumi, Canadian Prime Minister Harper urged Japan to assent to The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction.

This widely signed treaty would require Japan to expeditiously return abducted children to their country of habitual residence. As it is, foreign parents are forced to navigate a glacially moving court system that has never returned a child abducted by a Japanese parent.

After Samuel Lui's wife abducted their son Ezra to Japan, his U.S. custody order was perfunctorily validated by the Osaka District Court and confirmed four months later by the Appellate Court.

Yet the Family Court then granted him a mere three hours of visitation once a year. The Japanese mother had physical possession, and continued to deny Sam's custodial rights. At no point, even two years later after the Supreme Court validated Sam's custody, would a Japanese court or the police return his son. The intractability of the situation eventually forced Sam to give up custody in exchange for an unenforceable visitation agreement.

In January 2003, Yamila Castellanos alleges that her Japanese husband used a promise of living together to trick her into leaving daughter Emiri with relatives in Cuba and traveling to the United States. He then flew to Cuba and abducted Emiri to Japan.

There, Yamila accuses him of forging her signature on a form for divorce by mutual consent that gave him full custody and gave her no spousal support. When filed, Yamila was not and had never been in Japan. Despite the testimony of handwriting experts in Yamila's favor, she has only seen her daughter three times since, for a total of 120 minutes. The case is still winding its way through Japanese courts.

During his divorce, Canadian Murray Wood was granted full custody of his children, Manami and Takara. Then, in November 2004, he agreed to let his children travel to Japan, allegedly to see their sick grandfather. But when his ex-wife's child support payment failed, Murray found out that she had shipped her belongings to Japan and moved out of her apartment.

Despite the premeditated nature of the abduction, the Saitama District Court subsequently assumed jurisdiction and transferred custody to their Japanese mother. Since then, Murray has been allowed to see his daughter just once, for 10 minutes in a tightly guarded court room.

The Web site of the Japan Children's Rights Network ( ) contains a list of Japanese parents, who like Murray's ex-wife, are wanted for arrest on child-abduction related offenses. But the Japanese government will not extradite its citizens, claiming that parental abduction is not recognized as a crime in Japan.

In a May radio interview about Murray's case, Japanese Ambassador to Canada, Sadaki Numata said, "I have some difficulties in your talking about 'Japan' as if the government is making this decision. This is in the judiciary process."

But cases like that of Brett Weed make these words ring hollow. Brett's divorce decree allowed the Japanese mother to relocate their children, Takoda and Tiana, back to Japan, but granted him well-defined visitation rights. After arriving in Japan, the mother cut off all contact.

For nearly a year, Brett's attorney tried repeatedly to serve court documents on the mother, according to the "Hague Convention on Service Abroad," which Japan signed in 1970. The Ministry of Foreign Affairs, Japan's "central authority" for this treaty, returned all three attempts, with messages like "The address is correct but no one is ever there."

When the attorney tried to send the documents by postal mail directly, the only other option legal in Japan, they were returned, saying "Since the sender is considered to be a dangerous person, the Metropolitan Police Department has intervened and a temporary injunction and refusal of delivery have been issued by a court."

The U.S. court eventually transferred custody of the children to Brett.

But should he ever try to recover his children in Japan, the court will certainly dismiss his claim because the mother was not properly served with court documents, thanks to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs.

Through the eyes of these foreign parents, Japan appears to support international crimes of abduction. If this is not the case, then Japan should sign the Hague Convention on International Child Abduction, reform its family laws and apply them fairly.

Mark Smith is the pseudonym of the Web master of the Japan Children's Rights Network ( He has been unable to see his 4-year-old son, Yoshiya, since March 2002. Send comments to:

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Abducted Children Sacrificed In The Name of Diplomacy

By Brett Weed & Larry Synclair


American parents with children illegally taken to foreign countries are angry about the U.S. State Department’s annual report to Congress about human rights in other countries. The condemnation centers on the State Department’s support of countries known to allow international parental abduction.


The Country Reports on Human Rights Practices for 2008 was presented by the State Department’s Bureau of Democracy, Human Rights, and Labor. The report is required under the Foreign Assistance Act of 1961 and based on the Universal Declaration of Human Rights of December 10, 1948.  International parental abduction is also recognized as a federal crime in the United States; but left behind parents of abducted children abroad claim the Country Reports remain incomplete and in violation of law by not identifying countries permitting child abduction and retention such as Japan, Russia, Saudi Arabia, Philippines and Taiwan. 


Left-behind parents such as Paul Toland, Patrick Braden, Walter Benda, Brett Weed and others have called for the inclusion of parental abduction as a violation of human rights practices pertaining to countries that harbor parentally abducted children. The State Department has ignored this request in the name of diplomacy.


Walter Benda, co-founder of Children's Rights Council of Japan, the first foreign chapter of the nonprofit Landover, Maryland-based Children’s Rights Council, is pressing for Congressional inquiries about the State Department’s lack of action to address international parental abductions in its annual Country Reports and its failure to honor the spirit of The Universal Declaration of Human Rights.


Missing children organizations and hundreds of parents of abducted children are calling for support of proposed legislation known as the Parental Abduction Recovery, Enforcement, and Network Training Act. The PARENT Act would replace the State Department’s Office of Children’s Issues with a highly trained staff within the U.S. Justice Department.  This would eliminate the inherent conflict of interest that exists between the State Department’s diplomatic interests and the recovery efforts of our most vulnerable citizens, our children. 


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